For instance, if I were to stop at McDonald’s and buy a Happy
Meal, it comes complete with a crap plastic toy that amuses kids for about 3
minutes. Sometimes these toys come with tiny batteries to make them flash, sing
or beep. If you want to dispose of this toy safely, you are supposed to remove
the batteries first. Has anyone else tried to do this? They were never designed
for the batteries to be removed, and I have resorted to using a hacksaw on
occasions. (This must contravene some EU regulations surely?)
What I’m trying to say is that some stuff, like the McD toy,
comes for free and is completely
useless. Yet significant amounts of energy and raw materials have been used to
produce it, it has been transported long distances and is in no way re-usable
or recyclable. Compare this to my favourite jumper which was rather expensive,
because it is a fair-trade item that was hand-knitted in Nepal (yes, still not
local), with 100% wool, and it will keep me warm for years, until it is worn
out, when it will go to be recycled. More expensive still was my bike, but by
using it I save fuel, get exercise, have fun and if I keep it maintained it
could last for decades. When I give up cycling or get a new bike, it will be
sold second-hand and could continue to be used and enjoyed.
How can we measure stuff based on the amount we spend alone,
when there is so much more involved than that? I have decided to monitor our
stuff for a month by keeping a photo record of everything I buy. This won’t
include food stuff and toiletries which I am dealing with separately, or work
purchases. Already this is an eye-opener, and it is making me consider much
more, whether it is really necessary and if there are alternatives, such as
buying more things second-hand instead. I will post the full compilation on the
1st May.
I like the idea of buying second hand clothes. The original owner is responsible for the resources used and pollution created, so in theory I can
buy them with a free conscience. Some of my friends and my eldest daughter find
fantastic outfits for next to nothing in the second hand shops and online, but
I am not good at it. Firstly, having spent the last 20 years shopping with
young kids in tow, I avoid any shops that require hunting through clothes for
the correct size. After a minute of standing still, my children become bored
and then start playing hide and seek in the clothes rails, or start whinging.
This diverts my attention and raises my stress level, so I will undoubtedly
leave empty-handed. Nowadays I get some free time without kids, but it seems
too precious to spend shopping.
Secondly, I am not an average size which cuts down on
choice. With a bunch of clothes from different outlets the sizes can vary and
everything needs to be tried on, regardless of what the label says.
I am not bothered about fashion or having lots of different
outfits. I would rather buy something new, that I like, is good quality and is
a nice fit, and then wear it until its only good for rags. This way I really
get my money’s worth. Young children’s clothes are often outgrown before they
are worn out, so there is much more potential for ‘hand-me-downs’. I look for fair-trade
and organic items, but apart from the expense, they are not easy to find in
larger sizes or for kids.
Meanqueen has some money saving tips on her blog Life AfterMoney, one of which is that she always wears mens pants because they are
designed to last far longer than womens. It is definitely true that mens
clothes are designed to be much more hard-wearing. Good news for my shopping
averse husband, who’s clothes seem to last him decades ;-)
Other than clothes for me, I get given a lot of second hand
stuff, from cookbooks to tennis rackets, knitting needles, kids clothes,
jigsaws and garden tools. Also some things we have had the opportunity to buy
secondhand, for instance cars, our sofa, printers, computers, mobiles, and
books. With the all the internet sites for selling unwanted goods, this is so
much easier and very popular now. But where we excel is not buying things in
the first place. Well, maybe ‘excel’ is too strong a word, but I think we are
quite good at this.
Rule one is if you don’t go shopping, then you don’t buy
anything. If you do have to shop then make a list and try to stick to it. I
will only buy furnishings and furniture if my partner is with me, because I
like to buy something we agree on. Of course he hates shopping for furnishings,
so that cuts out a lot of spending opportunities. Kids toys is an area where I
used to take care, especially when they were younger, selecting toys that would
last, can be shared and could be added to, like lego, board games and a
climbing frame (after 16 years I gave it to my cousin for her children!).
Reducing the amount we spend on stuff by 90% seems
incredibly hard. It isn’t just a matter of cutting back. To achieve anywhere
near this reduction will involve some lifestyle changes. Changing the way you
shop, determining what your true needs are, minimising what you need, re-using
items, sourcing secondhand goods, buying things to last longer, maintaining
what you already have, sharing where you can and making things yourself, are
all going to be necessary to achieve such an ambitious, but necessary, target. Hmmm....
Checkout why this reduction is so necessary here.